So much time and planning went into the wedding day that as soon as it was over I was absolutely relieved and in total bliss. Driving away with my new husband was like a dream. I could not believe how amazing it felt. And going off to our honeymoon the next day sealed the fact that we really were married!
But when we came home, there was still some wedding things to be done! Well...just one.  The chore of legally changing my name.  Just this past week, I finished up all the things I had to do to change my name.
If you are a newly-wed bride: first of all, Congratulations!!! Second, I figured I could help you out with my experience and a checklist of what to do to legally change your name.
  1. Marriage License.  Make sure that your marriage license has been correctly filled out by you, your husband, officiant and witnesses. The marriage license has a section where you write the new name that you wish to have after your marriage.  Your officiant should have the responsibility of mailing the license for processing.  After a week or so, you should receive your official copy of the marriage license in the mail.  This official copy is your key to legally changing your name, so don't lose it!!!!!!!!!
  2. Social Security Office. After receiving your official marriage license, locate the nearest social security office. Go online and download the application to legally changing your name.  Print it out and complete it at home (this will make things a lot easier when you visit the office).  Then make an appointment or walk in (I walked in and ended up waiting in the lobby for an hour and a half- but I didn't mind).  Don't forget to bring your marriage license! Oh, and the website says you should bring your birth certificate to prove your citizenship but when I went, I didn't need it.  And they didn't ask for it.  When I was finally called up to the window, it literally only took 5 minutes for her to change my name.  Then you should receive your new social security card in the mail in 1 to 2 weeks. (I received it in just one week).
  3. DMV Driver's license/Identity card. After you change your name with Social Security, you can visit your nearest DMV to get your new driver's license/I.D. card. (Not sure if you have to wait until you receive the physical new SSN card. DMV didn't ask to see my new card, but they did make sure that I had visited the SS office before helping me.)  For the DMV, I definitely suggest that you make an appointment online.  The DMV is always busy and can take FOREVER, but if you have an appointment it is like you are V.I.P. in the fast track.  I made an appointment and was completely done with everything in just 20 minutes. When you get there, they will give you an easy application form to fill out.  Then they give you a number. (My number was instantly called.) Then it takes only 5-10 minutes at the desk. Then you take a new picture and you're done!
  4. Bank accounts.  Next you should change your name on your bank accounts.  Bring your marriage license, new driver's license, and Social Security Card.  Get a new debit card, new credit cards, and new checks if you need. (I was actually able to change my name at the CHASE bank with a marriage license alone. I didn't have my new driver's license or SScard yet but they still changed my name.)
  5. Other.  Now that you have your new social security card and DMV card you have the power to change your name anywhere else you need.  Here's a general list:
  • Employers/payroll
  • Post office
  • Electric and other utility companies
  • Credit card companies
  • Schools and alumni associations
  • Landlord or mortgage company
  • Insurance companies (auto, home, life)
  • Doctor's offices
  • Voter registration office
  • Passport office

Well, I hope this helps! If there are any questions, leave a comment below!

xoxox
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